what constutites victory

What constutites victory? What do we look at or evaluate to see if we won or lost? Well as a coach of  the Mid-Continent Cougars, one of the ways victory is constituted is by the score board, who won and who lost. You can tell that very easily by the score board. Tonight we beat a very tough Lyon College team did we win and they lossed. Well the score will say, yes that is the case. But how do we keep score in life. How do we know whether our lives are producing victory or defeats. Our score board in life is usually measured, by our home lives and whether we are good parents, whether we are stable providers, whether we are productive on the job. Does your life constitute victory or defeat?